When I was a kid I was very attached to a yellow hand knit blanket that someone had given me as a baby. I slept with it every night as a toddler, and could only be convinced to part with it once I shifted my affections to a stuffed bear when I was three. I couldn't sleep without my nose buried into Papa Bear. For years.
My son on the other hand, has never been big on having stuff in bed with him--until tonight, when he insisted on having a little plastic alligator hair clip of mine that he fished out of a drawer in the bathroom while I was blow drying his hair after a bath. He was determined. It had to come with him to bed. It would not do to place it on the night stand next to his bed, no. It needed to be IN the bed with him. I have no idea where or why this fixation originated, but I went with it, figuring it was not a battle to choose. And in the morning he had the lovely impression of the clip on the back of his arm. He also once brought the driver of one of his diggers to bed, and an occasional bulldozer or truck.
But in general, my kiddo doesn't like to sleep with anything. For a while I kept trying to get him to sleep with a stuffed animal, remembering with fondness the solace Papa Bear afforded me. But though he'd gamely show Monkey how to brush teeth and go potty, and he'd even let him sit in bed for story time, when it came time for the lights to go off, he'd push Monkey to the far edge of the bed. I eventually stopped pushing it, and have thereby saved a small fortune on the stuffed animals I would otherwise have bought for him. He couldn't care less.
My son's disinterest in stuffed animals, and his random, fleeting affection for the eccentric objects he chooses to bring to bed, has made me wonder what other toddlers are like. I'm also wondering if co-sleeping has anything to do with how toddlers attach (or don't) to comfort objects. Could co-sleeping make the need for a "lovie" less? I'm not sure, but I know that we've co-slept with Bean since birth (which has been an ideal arrangement for all three of us--as he was never what you'd call an "easy" sleeper, and everyone got more sleep in the same bed) and Bean has yet to show any interest in dragging any particular object to bed every night the way I did for the better part of my childhood.
Does your child have a comfort object that he or she brings to bed every night?