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Pros and cons of nurseries
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Pros and cons of nurseries


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What are the advantages of nurseries?


Parents know how stressful caring for a child at home can be - even their own child - so, rather than worry about how a nanny might cope with a child during particularly trying moments, many prefer to choose a nursery.

One of the advantages is that nurseries offer a structured environment. All nurseries in England are inspected by Ofsted regularly for registration purposes, nursery staff work closely together (with rooms having more than one carer), and a manager oversees the running of the nursery.

Another plus is that nurseries have clear rules for parents to follow (such as picking up and drop-off times), so you know exactly what is expected of you. Parents also have the opportunity to meet other parents who may be able to lend support and exchange favours such as babysitting.

If you use registered or approved childcare, such as a nursery setting, you may be able to get help with your childcare costs from the childcare element of the Working Tax Credit. For information on tax credits, call the HM Revenue & Customs helpline: 0845 300 3900.

A nursery place can be seen as a stable and reliable form of childcare, because the nursery will still be open regardless of whether one carer is sick or late. When you opt for a nursery you do not have to take someone else's sickness or holidays into account.

At least 50 per cent of staff in a nursery should be trained in early childhood education so they know what to expect from your child developmentally and are able to nurture his growing skills accordingly.

A nursery curriculum should include a wide variety of activities during the day to teach different skills, such as singing, dancing and listening to stories. Many parents like the fact that their children spend their days engaged in play activities in a structured setting. Of course, the trained staff will be ensuring that the activities are age-appropriate to the children, helping them to learn as they play.

Finally, toddlers can benefit from the opportunity to mix and socialise with other children, as it can help them to gain confidence.

What are the disadvantages?

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One problem with nurseries is that although you are paying a high charge, you must conform to their opening and closing times (though there should be some flexibility), and find back-up care when the nursery is closed or when your child is ill. Your child is also more likely to catch diseases such as colds and conjunctivitis, because she is exposed to more germs.

Children are less likely to get the one-to-one care that is taken for granted with a stay-at-home mum or nanny, and some research has suggested that very young children do better in a one-to-one environment. Babies, in particular, need a lot of love and attention to thrive and do well, and some parents do believe that the nursery is a more appropriate environment for older children when they are ready to develop their social and creative skills.

Finally, mums and dads know that looking after one baby, let alone three, is hard work, which is why some of them balk at the idea of a single carer looking after more than one baby at a nursery all day long.

The bottom line


It is true that the quality of care dips when a person has to watch over too many children, but all registered nurseries must comply with regulations on child-to-carer ratios. Also, a number of nursery nurses working together can offer support and encouragement to each other when needed, as well as being able to share examples of best practice. Good nurseries keep the number of children in each group lower than the regulations stipulate, too. You will find it useful to ask about staff to child ratios when you visit nurseries.

The Children Act recommends:

• One carer for every three babies under two years

• One carer for every four children from 2-3

• One carer for every eight children from 3-5.

Reviewed October 2007.

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Sacrifice is what a mom does, caring for her kid while working outside.

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I cannot believe that the anonymous writer above is calling working mums selfish. Cutting back and managing the best you can is all very well but when it does not pay the bills then it isn't. Really catch a grip now and realise that some mums want to work but some mums have to work! As for a mother is a full time role until the age of three..... No its not! A mother is a full time role for life! My son went to creche at only seven months as I had to go to work to help pay for our house, which we all live very happily in. He was born with severe club feet and had casts from the top of the leg to the toes on both legs. It broke my heart having to leave him, but he never looked back. How he loved to go to creche each day and be doeted on by everyone and interact with the other children. So much more amusing than sitting with Mammy all day. He never ever made strange or cried when I left and still has not and he is a thriving 18mth old toddler now. I was able to take a four day week thankfully when I went back to work, Myself and his dad are attached to him twentyfour seven when he is at home and to be honest I think, no, I KNOW that he really likes his own space and time when at creche. My son is wonderfully independent and extremely affectionate, a really well balanced toddler and we are heart bursting proud of him. So please think about what you write and what you say about people. You are teaching your kids, if you have any you never said? that working mums are selfish. There is nothing selfish about loving your children and providing for them as best you can. I hope you took on board Debra's comments as she is doing fantastic as a mum. Fair play Debra and fair play all mums who give their children their everything. Because some days its hard to know your arse from your elbow xxxxx Suzanne

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