So now that we've all shared our thoughts on
the movie and voted on
the dress, let's talk about how the Vivienne Westwood gown worn by Carrie ends up with a starring role in the movie and why that should be a lesson to us all: Love your dress, but don't make it the star of the show, lest you end up like Carrie and Big.
(I think we can safely say that if it wasn't for Vogue/Page Six and The Very Expensive Dress that Carrie felt obligated to show off there would have been a 75-person wedding instead of a 200 person media event, no?)
The dress, part of
Westwood's Fall 2007 collection (called "Wake Up, Cave Girl" which, yes, sounds like a SATC episode) is a pure love-it-or-hate it creation, much like the rest of Carrie's wardrobe. In that sense, it's perfect for her, but there's something about the dress that just doesn't fit her - Patricia Fields herself would have preferred to dress her in the
Zac Posen gown that Charlotte wore as a bridesmaid's dress - it's a little too "cream puff princess" for our favorite quirky downtown fashionista. Sure, she tried to made it her own by putting a bird on her head and wearing one of her signature brooches (as well as those Dior sandals she never seemed to take off) but the dress is just too much, and in the end she ended up committing the most heinous fashion crime of all: She didn't wear the dress, it wore her.
Ladies, let's not forget that no matter how beautiful the wedding gown, how expensive it is, or how chic the designer label - it should never overshadow YOU. Even if it is a gift from Vivienne Westwood herself. Because you (and your husband) should be the focus of your wedding day - not your dress.
Pictures of Sarah Jessica Parker as Carrie in the dress are after the jump.