Camp can be a fun and rewarding experience full of challenges and excitement. Children learn about independence, cooperation, competition and teamwork. For many, summer camp is also a time of significant emotional growth, development and transition.
Although most children are excited about going to summer camp, for some it can be a scary or anxiety provoking experience. In general, parents shouldn't push or force kids to go to camp if they feel frightened or uncomfortable. The following tips are designed to help parents prepare their children for summer camp:
Match the child to the camp. Choose a camp that’s suited to your child’s personality, temperament and interests. There’s nothing wrong with encouraging them to try new things though it’s best not to force kids to do things at camp that they really dislike or simply can’t do. Repeated negative experiences can have an effect on a child’s self-esteem.
Choose the camp together. Review brochures, videos and Web sites and get your child’s input. Careful selection, preparation and planning can increase the likelihood of a positive experience.
Go at the “right” age. While the “right” age will vary from child to child, it is best not push kids to go to camp at too early. If a child doesn’t seem ready for a full summer away, consider a local day camp. It may be an easier transition and a more positive experience.
Go to camp with a friend. If your child is shy, consider a camp where they know and like at least one other person. Having one friend makes it easier to meet other kids.
Tell them what to expect. Walk them through the daily routine. If you choose a camp that’s driving distance, consider an off-season visit to help familiarize your child with the setting.
Let kids help with the packing. Encourage them to bring reminders of home such as toys, books or photos. If you went to camp, you can also share your own memories and experiences.
Grow their confidence. A part of camp is about learning how to interact with new people. If they are having problems with another camper, encourage them to try and work things out before intervening. If needed, suggest that they ask a counselor or the camp director for help.
Homesickness help. Being homesick is a normal reaction to being away from family and friends, especially for the first time. Be supportive and reassuring to a child who feels homesick at camp. Tell them you understand that it’s hard to be away from home and you miss them too. Having a set day when you can call or email may also be helpful.
Trust your instincts. If homesickness seems severe or if your child seems truly unhappy, talk to the camp director. If you’re convinced it’s just not working out, don’t be afraid to let your child come home.
Stay in touch with camp friends. Help children keep in touch with camp friends. Plan get-togethers for those who live nearby. For friends who live at a distance, calls or emails can help them maintain contact during the school year.
