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Relationship Articles by Laura Berman of the Chicago Sun-Times
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Dr. Laura Berman is a world renowned sex and relationship expert who is considered a thought leader and innovator in her field. As a sex …

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Enjoy tricks and treats, adult-style

DR. BERMAN: Halloween fun might seem solely the domain of children, but the truth is adults can enjoy their share of tricks and treats too — and beyond the actual holiday.

No evidence taking HPV vaccine encourage’s sexual activity for girls

DR. BERMAN: Many parents fear that vaccinating young girls against the sexually transmitted disease HPV will encourage them to be sexual, or that the vaccination will be viewed as “permission” to engage in sexual activity. Happily, we now have research that shows otherwise.

After abuse, is reconciliation possible?

DR. LAURA BERMAN: The purpored rekindled romance between music superstars Rihanna and Chris Brown gives many people — myself included — pause. There are several reasons why.

Are you letting tweets sour your relationship?

DR. BERMAN: Social media has changed the way many couples relate to one another, even those couples who are not in the Hollywood spotlight. So what are the rules of engagement when it comes to love and the Internet?

Education quashes misconceptions about sex

DR. LAURA BERMAN: Shaming rape victims doesn’t lower the abortion rate, but studies have clearly demonstrated that comprehensive sex education can and does help prevent unintended pregnancy.

Dating after divorce: 7 things to consider

DR. LAURA BERMAN: Dating after divorce always is tricky. It can be hard to know when the time is right, especially if you have children and are navigating issues with your spouse.

Teaching teens to respect their bodies

DR. LAURA BERMAN: A recent survey released from the National Center for Health Statistics found that oral sex actually is on the decline among teenagers, as is vaginal intercourse.

American breast is bigger, but in danger, author says

The biology of the breast is changing — and not for the better, says Florence Williams, author of Breasts: A Natural and Unnatural History. She details a number of alarming trends that may be contributing to the United State’s high rate of breast cancer — today and in years to come.

Angry with your partner? Here’s the right way to handle it

DR. LAURA BERMAN: A new study from the University of Tennessee has found that expressing anger to your partner actually can be beneficial to your bond. Researcher and associate professor James McNulty found that the “short-term discomfort of an angry but honest conversation” could lead to less resentment and tension. It also could help set clear boundaries, as once the offending partner knows what they have done wrong, they can easily avoid the behavior in the future and prevent hurt feelings down the road.

Let’s stop knocking choices moms make

DR. LAURA BERMAN: When men rise up the corporate ladder, we don’t question whether they are fulfilling their responsibilities at home or accuse them of being bad fathers. Yet when women go after their career goals, eyebrows are raised and questions are asked.

Going bald is a family affair for Laura Berman

Hair was the last thing on my mind when I went to what I imagined to be a routine oncology follow-up after my breast cancer surgery in January. But that would soon change as I learned that my cancer actually was HER2 positive, which means …

Too many creeps see opportunity on buses, trains

DR. LAURA BERMAN: Public transportation can be a blessing, but as commuters know, it also can be a curse. Sexual harassment can be an issue, as is sexual assault in the form of unwanted touching, indecent exposure and public masturbation.

Will Miley marrying make your teen consider getting hitched?

DR. LAURA BERMAN: Parents are worried about the message Miley Cyrus’ teenage engagement could send to their own children, while others have pointed out that this is a growing trend in Hollywood.

Dad’s fear of daughter dating keeps myths alive

DR. LAURA BERMAN: Many parents are more comfortable with the idea of their teenage boys dating rather than teenage girls. However, this can perpetuate potentially damaging social messaging.

Shaking up myths about sex toys

DR. LAURA BERMAN: Even though over a century has passed since the invention of the vibrator (the first was sold in 1902), there are still many misconceptions and myths that surround sex toys.

  • Too much self-sacrifice breeds resentment

    DR. LAURA BERMAN: Women tend to put their own needs and desires on hold to serve their partner. It sounds romantic, but it’s important to make sure that your self-sacrifice isn’t actually going to harm your bond later down the road.

  • Alcohol overload, risk of sex assault linked

    DR. LAURA BERMAN: A recent Australian study surveyed more than 2,000 college students for four years and found that women who binge drink are more likely to be victims of sexual assault. They also are more likely to forgo safer sex practices such as condoms.