Widow of a Duke
Officially the widow of a duke is known as 'The Dowager Duchess of Norfolk' (unless there is already a dowager duchess in that family still living in which case the widow of the junior duke is known by her forename, eg Anne, Duchess of Norfolk).
In practice, many widows prefer to use their forename in place of 'Dowager'. If in doubt, use of the forename is recommended.
If the present holder of the dukedom is unmarried, the widow of the previous duke does not use the term of either The Dowager Duchess of Norfolk, or Anne, Duchess of Norfolk, but continues to be known as The Duchess of Norfolk.
How to address the Widow of a Duke:
Beginning of letter | Dear Duchess |
End of letter | Yours sincerely |
Envelope | The Dowager (or Anne) Duchess of Norfolk |
Verbal communication | Duchess |
Invitation | The Dowager (or Anne) Duchess of Norfolk |
Description in conversation | The Duchess of Norfolk |
List of Directors or Patrons | The Dowager (or Anne) Duchess of Norfolk |
Place card | The Dowager (or Anne) Duchess of Norfolk |
Legal document | The Most Noble Anne Mary Teresa Duchess of Norfolk |