The expressions 'U' (Upper Class) and 'Non-U' (non-Upper Class) came to prominence in Nancy Mitford's Noblesse Oblige (1956). Today, some of her proscriptions seem bizarre (spectacles, not glasses; looking glass, not mirror).
However, if you are anxious to pass muster in more class-aware environments you should remember the basics: loo or lavatory never toilet; sofa never settee; napkin never serviette; supper never tea; drawing room or sitting room, never lounge or front room.
From the very first interview to handing in your notice – follow these guidelines to help you stay ahead.
Explore and celebrate the many British rituals, customs and traditions that punctuate the year.
A portrait of inspiration, influence and achievement in modern Britain
fromPeople of Today
Team GB excelled and finished third in the medals table. Here are the Debrett's People of Today who enjoyed the success.
A Debrett's charity supporting social mobility in Britain
fromFoundation
Providing business skills in networking and interviewing.
fromFoundation
Your contribution will help high achievers reach their full potential.
Debrett's guide to everyday modern manners
A comprehensive guide to addressing members of the royal family and people with titles
fromThe Royal Family
How to address the Queen, members of the royal family and their private secretaries.
fromForms of Address
From members of the church to diplomatic institutions, this section offers a guide to correct forms of address for the higher ranks among the main professions.
The traditional social season and high profile sporting events
Providing skills and confidence to succeed in any professional or social situation
fromProfessional Training
Exceed expectations in your role as a business ambassador.
fromPrivate Client Training
Introduction to business and wider society: professional skills, networking and social intelligence.
Debrett's guide to the modern wedding
fromEngagements and Invitations
An occasion that requires once-in-a-lifetime romance.
fromBridal and Dress Codes
From the groom, the best man and morning dress to the bridesmaids, parents and guests.
Debrett's etiquette guides, reference works, diaries and notebooks
fromNotebooks
The Debrett's 'Fashion Rocks and Dress Rules' notebook offers advice on how to dress for a range of occasions and codes.
fromBooks
The Debrett's Wedding Guide will show you the best way to plan and organise the perfect wedding.
