A Sexologist’s Thoughts on Orgasm Day
If what’s happening isn’t arousing enough, extending its duration doesn’t help! The way to an orgasm is almost always “increase arousal.”
Good Vibrations Guide to Sex, Politics, Media and Culture
If what’s happening isn’t arousing enough, extending its duration doesn’t help! The way to an orgasm is almost always “increase arousal.”
To say that Carol Queen has helped shape the world for the better would be an incredible understatement. This year the staff got together to celebrate Carol’s 28th anniversary with Good Vibrations by anonymously...
At the heart of our critique: concern about the notion that there’s such a thing as definitively normal sex (there isn’t), and the belief that shame around sex (masturbation, porn, desiring sexual variety, etc.) is often the reason people feel distressed about their sexual experience. Unhealthy behavior does exist, and compulsion can be one version of it. Some people do need help. But that help can come without embracing the notion of sex addiction, and it can be sex-positive.
Earlier this month, Educator Andy and Staff Sexologist Carol Queen traveled to LA to represent Good Vibrations at Catalyst, a sexuality conference that gathers educators, academics, bloggers, activists and others to share perspectives in...